I always used to think that relationships were a bit of a mystery.  Not any more though.  Relationships don't make sense all the time because they are emotional experiences, and when the pressure is on, people make emotional decisions.

Don't know if you've noticed but, if your like the rest of us, when you're at your most emotional, the decisions you make tend to be pretty crappy.  They are not logical and too often, downright destructive.  If you want to be in a relationship that really works, one that makes your life better, then be emotional by all means ... but don't make decisions until your intelligence is in control

Get your emotional act together.  Emotions have their place that's for sure, but they do make lousy decision makers so you have to keep them in check.