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The family court 0f Australia is in dire strife with cases increasing by almost 20,000 in the past decade. Legal fees are up around $5billion per year and its become a lawyers picnic. If you want to get divorced now, it will cost you and your loved one an average of $40,000. A rather large investment for something that doesn't work anyway. If it did then 75% of divorcees wouldn't keep doing

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For many years I have worked with people who become their own worst enemy. These are people who work very hard to achieve in life, only to do some really stupid things that undo all of their good work, just when they are about to make it! Just recently I worked with a man who had overcome a very challenging situation is his marriage. His wife was unhappy and was seeking companionship elsewhere.

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I was talking to a Family Lawyer earlier today and she told me that when it comes to finances, the most stupid thing a person can do is get divorced. This is pretty obvious when you look at the enormous divorce settlements of celebrities like Tiger Woods, Greg Norman and Mel Gibson. However, although the rest of us don't have those $figures to contend with, divorce is still a very expensive and

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I always used to think that relationships were a bit of a mystery.  Not any more though.  Relationships don't make sense all the time because they are emotional experiences, and when the pressure is on, people make emotional decisions. Don't know if you've noticed but, if your like the rest of us, when you're at your most emotional, the decisions you make tend to be pretty crappy.  They are

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On the weekend I was talking to a friend and his wife who left me with a number of real-life realizations.  Sure they both told me the same story with the same facts but their stories were still totally different. This is a couple who are heading towards divorce, even though neither of them wants to be divorced. They're both excellent parents and underneath they really do love each other. They

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If you are in a relationship that has no problems then you are either in total denial of how things really are, or your relationship is so poor that it’s not worth working on.  Problems, difficulties and challenges are in every relationship, the good, the bad and the ugly.  That’s the deal and it goes like this. Have you noticed that both your best and worst behaviours are saved up for the ‘love

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Photo courtesy of Stock.XCHNG Love is all I need to have a successful, happy relationship. Love is enough in the beginning, but after a while the relationship needs more. So there’s work to be done and if and your partner are unable to work together to grow and develop, the future can quickly become grim. Sure the songs we hear on the radio, televisions shows, and movies tell us that being

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So Sean Penn is in the news again for an emotional outburst. The gossip has it that he had some sort of altercation with Greg Shapiro the current partner of his former wife, and new Oscar winner, at an Oscar after-party. I don’t think Penn’s behaviour is cool in any way and he would do well to do something about it! Penn declined to attend the all important Governor’s Ball, held later in the

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Photo courtesy of Stock.XCHNGRelationships and crisis go hand-in-hand. In a relationship crisis, it’s not about who is to blame, who was wrong, who hurt who. Finding blame actually makes it almost impossible to constructively deal with the crisis. Relationships are the combined energy of all partners – warts and all. The ultimate connection (or disconnection) comes from the combined

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Photo courtesy of Stock.XCHNGA new online service has just been ‘promoted’ on Australian TV encouraging husbands and wives to fool around, offering infidelity guaranteed in their promotional slogan 'Life is short, have an affair'.The current affair program portrayed the site as offensive and questioned the site owner (and his wife) in terms of the morality and integrity to the institution of

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Tiger Woods and his wife are in the news and once again teaching the whole world about relationships. But what are we learning? The media treats this as a superstar who has been really caught out, in the process of ruining his otherwise perfect life.This is a potentially happily married and very fortunate couple who are coming undone. For many its playing their own worst nightmares. While the

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Divorce doesn't work! Over the years I have worked with many couples as they contemplate that perennial question ... should I stay or should I go?My advice is usually the same; stay with your partner! If you can keep your relationship together then do so because in the longer term staying put can work best for all concerned. I understand that it often seems impossible to stay together, and I

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Christmas and New Year is our great festive season and this means holidays. Holidays means time off work and time with the family, Sounds great for some, and for others it can be a private nightmare. In all families lurking beneath the surface there is emotional baggage to be dealt with, and there’s nothing like time together to bring issue rushing to the surface. Being away at work all day

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"If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, "thank you," that would suffice." Meister EckhartThanksgiving Day, celebrated primarily in Canada and the United States, is traditionally a religious ceremony. It is a time to give thanks for the harvest and express gratitude in general.In the US, it is celebrated on the fourth Thursday in November. Australia celebrated a 'National Day of

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Life is a struggle, so it is said. But what comes out of the struggle is everything wonderful in our life. We may struggle to get rid of our problems, in the fantasy that if could get rid of them all, then everything would be fantastic."If only I can have a new relationship with someone who truly understands me then things will be great". "If only my children behave themselves then I will have a

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Here's one of the great paradox's of life. The ones we love the most, the ones we spend the most time with, the ones who mean the most to us, are the very ones that we treat like junk at times! We seem to reserve both our best and worst behaviors for the people we love the most!You see in all loving relationships eventually things 'unlike love' come up sooner or later. Of course some people do

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Have you ever noticed that when something goes wrong, one of the first things people do is look for someone to blame. Now without doubt it is very useful to find out precisely why something went wrong. Otherwise how can we do it in a way that is more likely to work out next time.

But finding out what went wrong is a different thing to blaming someone for doing something wrong.

When you blame

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What is a secret for Change. When we talk about 'secrets' we are usually talking about things that are potentially obvious but for some reason we just fail to put the pieces of information together. When we eventually do see it for what it really is we have what is often called the "ah ahhhhh experience", which is short for ... "Ah ahhhh now I understand."So here's a secret about achieving

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Now this is a set of events that came together to give me exactly what I was looking for. During Mike Handcock's Wealth Shift there was discussion about the need to recognize the spirit of organizations. "Easier said than done" has been my past experience.Anyway at this Wealth Shift there happened to be Richard Yapp, who just happens to be an expert in Mind-Mapping. Richard demonstrated a process

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This is a great game.I am working in direct partnership with ‘The Great Spirit’. I do my bit and ‘The Great Spirit’ does amazing things in return. What a fantastic friend to have.I stay connected by meditating twice a day. I live with gratitude for the life I have. I keep records and take notice of the opportunities that are presented to me.I record some of the coincidences that keep happening

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Gurus put their own particular spin on things, but when it’s all said and done, their similarities far outweigh their differences. And the biggest similarity is that they all work with ‘The Great Spirit’.So for the next 12 months plus, I'm going to work directly with ‘The Great Spirit’ and this includes keeping you posted by blogging the experience at least weekly.Dr John Demartini tells us to

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PERFECT PARTNERSYour partner may not be perfect but they are perfect for you! Vision Villas, Gianyar, Bali, October, 2010What creates extraordinarily passionate and loving relationships?What are the forces that inspire the utmost excitement, joy, love and passion between two people?What do you want from, and in, your relationship?For most people the answer includes, “I want to feel connected to

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Welcome to this the first Mindset Magic Blog.Every day I have the priviledge of working with people who want to grow and develop into even more of who they are. It's where I spend the majority of my time and it is something that gives me great pleasure.Invariably people seek assistance not because they are challenged, but because their challenges keep persisting. The problem is that while these

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